Updated: November, 2019
Once upon a time, there was a girl. She thought she was pretty hot stuff, and vowed that she would never, ever waste her time fighting for a guy. The way she figured it, if a man didn’t know how special she was, it was his loss. And the idea of getting back together with an ex? Preposterous! In her mind, that was the lamest of all lame moves that other girls pulled. As far as she was concerned, relationships end for a reason and shouldn’t ever be revisited.
There are too many fish in the sea, why waste your time on one that’s already gone bad?
You want to know a secret? That girl was me, Charice. Not too long ago, in fact. But then, I found this amazing guy. And we had an incredible relationship. We’re talking bird singing and bees buzzing kind of incredible – the stuff that fairy tales are made of.
About six months in though, I got cold feet. I know, I know – why?!? I can’t really explain it. Maybe it was because my entire life, I really had been that strong and independent girl. For the first time ever, I was relying on this other person, and it scared me.
So I dumped him. I pushed him away and went back to doing my own thing and pursuing my own bliss, convinced that there was something better out there for me and that I didn’t need a man in my life to find it. Not any man. Not even him.
But you know what? I missed him. I missed how much we laughed together and how truly he just got me. I kept thinking I would stop missing him, but that day never came. Unfortunately, by the time I realized how important he was to me, he had already moved on.
I had hurt him, and he wasn’t all that willing to look back or to offer me another chance. Everyone I knew told me I needed to move on too. That I needed to learn from my mistakes and not make the same ones the next time around, but that he and I were a lost cause.
I knew better though. I knew he was the one – I just had to remind him of that fact.
So I threw myself into researching and studying methods for getting an ex back. I analyzed everything I read and cultivated the perfect plan – the plan that would eventually find us back together and in love.
That was three years ago, and the ring on my finger today should tell you one thing: that plan worked. We are happier than ever, all because I knew he was worth fighting for.
Now, do I believe all relationships are worth that same effort? Absolutely not. Sometimes pride gets in the way and women end of fighting for relationships that truly are better off dying. I would never encourage anyone to be that woman; desperate and yearning for a relationship that wasn’t all that good to begin with.
But when it really was the right relationship and things just went inexplicably wrong, sometimes it’s worth the fight.
Some guys are worth fighting for.
Which is why I have compiled the information on this site here – to share with you what I learned and to show you how to get your own true love back. For years I’ve been offering this same advice to friends, and it finally felt like time to commit it all to writing.
I’ve been there, in your shoes, and I know exactly what you are feeling right now.
I also know that you can get your ex back.
It takes work and even a bit of patience, but if you are truly committed to reigniting that old flame – I am ready to help you fight!
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