How To Make A Guy Like You And Keep Him Interested
Trying to make him want you and not finding success? There are a lot of ways to make a guy like you, but you may be doing all the wrong things. If you’re like me, you may feel embarrassed or even unsure of what to do – it’s natural. Whether you’re 20, 30, 40, 50 or older, making the first move is difficult. Very difficult. I’m going to show you how to get a guy to like you the right way.
In fact, you’re going to make him desire you without him knowing you’re trying.
These are subtle little changes to the sexiness that is already in you and will make him interested in you.
I don’t want to leave you in suspense too much longer, but I will tell you:
- How to make conversation
- How to play off of his primal fears
- How to be the center of attentionDo You Never Know What to Say?
Do You Never Know What to Say?
You’re not going to make him fall in love if you don’t know how to break the ice. Every relationship starts with talking. Yes, looks matter – but you need to talk before you get hot and steamy.
Every girl has been in this situation. You just don’t know what to say.
If you want to make a man interested in you, you need be able to read his queues and play off of them to keep the conversation going. This is simple. Let me explain:
He’s staring at you: Chances are, he’s staring into space. If he’s looking around or looking down often, he’s probably bored, so change the topic.
In this case, you want to do something to pique his interest. A good “go-to” is to ask him questions about himself, or an activity he loves. If he’s wearing basketball shorts, ask him if he plays, when he first started playing, and, if you’re game, if he would like to play a game against you some time.
Another great sign is when:
He leans toward you: This means that you have his attention. Remember the topic of conversation and use this to keep future conversations going. This is one of the signs a guy is interested in you.
If he is leaning away from you, it’s time to say something powerful to grab his attention. A little, “have you ever been skinny dipping” is enough to snap him back to the conversation.
There are a lot of clues you can play off of to keep the conversation going, and you need to master them.
Afraid That You Bore Him to Death?
You’re not going to get him to commit if you bore him to death. In fact, he will turn and run the other way. Do you want to spend time with someone that is boring? No. You want someone that is exciting.
Want to know how to get any guy to like you?
It’s simple. You want to be able to understand him, understand his fears and understand his desires. I hate to break it to you, but you’re not going to get a man interested by watching The Notebook.
So, what do you do?
Be adventurous. Men love adventure, so instead of spending a night at home watching movies, ask him to:
- Go skydiving with you.
- Sneak on top of a building’s roof.
- Swim with dolphins.
If you know something scares him, do it together and make him feel comforted. These are the activities that will keep you on his mind night and day.
Now, it doesn’t just stop here. You need to be the unexpected girl that says crazy things and really keeps him wrapped around your finger. Let’s look at an example:
- “Wow!” Do you see that girl rocking a white shirt with no bra?
- I’m going to try that tomorrow. What do you think?
This is a way to get his mind immediately back on you even if a bombshell walks through the door.
Sometimes, all it takes is for you to break out of your shell, and try something exciting and daring. After all, you only live once.
Want to Be The Center of Attention – Naturally?
So, at this point, you’ve made conversation and you have had one heck of a time scaring him to death by skydiving – or whatever activity you chose. Things should be going great at this point, and if he has any sense, he will already be falling for you.
It’s time to kick it into overdrive and know how to look hot – no makeup necessary.
How does this work? You need to be fabulous before you can be sexy. So much of attraction is based on how confident you feel. If you want to know how to look sexy, it all starts with being confident and having fun in life.
First, let him know that you’re having an amazing life.
- Spend time with friends and share pictures. Heck, even send him a picture just to remember you by.
- Take control of your work. That’s right – work can be sexy. Let him know that you won the biggest case of the year, or that you were promoted because you’re awesome.
Finally, I am going to ask you to do something you’re not comfortable with. You’re going to need to let loose.
The next time you’re at a party together or at the club, take him by the hand and drag him on the dance floor. Dance your heart out and ooze with confidence. You want to be the center of attention, even if it’s only his center of attention you’re worried about.
Men are attracted to women that everyone has their eyes on. That’s why when a girl starts a relationship, men flock to her. Let him know that you’re adventurous and can be the center of attention whenever you want. It takes a lot of work, but this will have him turn into your little puppy dog.